Below I created an outline for the structure of an approach. Follow it and you’ll always know your next move.
Every set should begin in superficial comfort so that the girl is comfortable having a conversation with you. You cannot seduce a girl that isn’t yet comfortable with your presence.
The easiest and most reliable way to get attraction is by using an observational tease. You notice something about her, and then you playfully tease her about it.
The qualification phases are simply mechanisms that are used to move the interaction forward. Small hoop and medium hoop qualification questions move you into the Rapport Comfort Phase. Big hoop and sexual qualification questions move the interaction into the Seduction Phase.
Use my outline as a reference point so that you’ll know how to smoothly go from opening to seduction location.
Socially Direct Opener
Superficial Comfort Phase
Fun Cold Read
Small Hoop Qualification Phase
Small Investment Closed Ended Question
Medium Hoop Qualification Phase
Medium Investment Open Ended Question
Move her to a place within the venue to know that the attraction is solid.
Isolate her in a place within the venue that is away from her friends.
Rapport Comfort Phase
This phase is used to get to know each other. It’s also the phase where you can amp up the attraction with sexual flirting and physical escalation.
Big Hoop Qualification Phase
A Higher Investment Open Ended Question
Sexual Qualification Phase
Fun Sexual Open Ended Questions
It’s a place to go after the initial meeting place such as a restaurant, after party, her place, or your place.
The objective in the seduction phase is to get more physical and to ultimately have sex. Therefore the seduction phase starts in a location where sex can actually happen.