Anytime you go out to meet girls, all you really need is one hot girl to be into you in order for you to feel like you had a great night. So if you go out and approach only three sets, but quickly give up for the night when you don’t get your desired results, you’re hurting your own chances at success. If you would have just approached one more set, it’s entirely possible that one of the girls would have been instantly attracted to you.
Not Every Girl Will Be Into You
You need to transform yourself into the type of guy that doesn’t let minor setbacks bother you one bit. Just realize that it comes with the territory. To be really good at cold approaching and attracting hot girls, you need to have thick skin. It doesn’t matter how attractive you are, not every girl will be into you.
Partly Skill and Partly a Numbers Game
Once you have the skill set of being able to confidently approach, attract, carry a fun conversation, and lead the interaction in a sexual direction, it’s still partly a numbers game. Some girls you approach will be friendly, but also boring. Others will want absolutely nothing to do with you or any other guy, and will just blow you off seconds after you approach. Some will be slightly reserved until you show that you’re a cool, fun and friendly guy, and then they’ll show off their fun personality. And then another percentage will be instantly attracted to you.
During any given night when you go out, it might be the second girl that you’re able to attract, or it might just be the sixth girl. What if you approached five sets of girls, the conversations went no-where, but then you approached a really hot sixth set, and you ended up taking one of the girls home. Wouldn’t you call that a successful night? I sure would. If you had given up after approaching the first five sets because they didn’t go as well as you hoped, you wouldn’t have given yourself the opportunity to have that fun experience with that hot girl.
You have to learn to not let it bother you when you approach a set and it’s not fun. If it’s not fun, just think of it as not a good match and do another approach. The next approach might just be the one you’re able to spark attraction and create an emotional connection with. All you really need is one great connection with one hot girl to make your night a memorable one. So push through yourself to make another approach even if you’re not having fun yet.
Be persistent and your chances of success will increase exponentially.