How to Get That Special Girl Back

If you recently had a girlfriend break up with you or you had a special girl that you were dating that lost interest in you, and you want her back, then this is a post that should be very helpful to you.

She lost interest in you for very good reasons, so don’t initiate contact with her again until you’re a much improved man. There’s no reason for her to want you back if your still essentially the same guy. Also, both of you need time away from each other. She needs time away from you so that she can forget about the bad feelings, and to mostly remember the good times you had together.

There’s a variety of reasons why your girl may have lost interest or attraction for you, but I’ll just assume that you became needy, and didn’t have a fun lifestyle and a strong attractive identity. Now I’ll talk about the improvements you should make before you make any attempt to get her back.

Massively Improve Your Inner and Outter Game
If you were showing needy behavior then your inner and outter game needs massive improvement. If you don’t make improvements in this part of your life, you’ll just lose her again, and that’s only if she decides to come back. By making your game tight, your confidence will become unshakeable, and you’ll know that you can always get another quality hot girl anytime you want. The hurt of losing your girl should be incentive enough for you to want to take charge of your life and to finally take that that 1 on 1 training that you’ve been thinking about. That’s the only way that you’re going to make a massive improvement in a short amount of time.

Make Sure You Are Dating at Least Three Other Hot Girls
With the knowledge that you’ve gained from taking quality 1 on 1 Pickup Training, you want to get to the point where you are dating at least three hot quality girls at the same time. By dating and having sex with lots of hot girls, you’ll soon realize that the girl that you lost is not quite as special as you once thought. Also, if you do decide to pursue your old girlfriend while having lots of hot girls in your life, you definitely will not show any needy behavior because you will no longer need her. That’s the place you want to be in. It’s fine to want her, but don’t ever feel like you need her.

Create a Fun and Exciting Social Life
Every hot girl wants to be with a guy that has a fun and exciting social life. No girl wants to be with a boring guy that just spends his nights watching tv. If you don’t have a fun social life, just realize that any young hot girl will not stay with you very long. She’s going to get bored.

Find new friends by taking classes with like minded people. Re-initiate old friendships. If you take a bootcamp, some of those students can become good friends of yours. When you meet a really cool and fun girl that has a boyfriend, make sure to still take her number and or become facebook friends with her.

Make Obvious Improvements
You want to make obvious improvements that will cause her to feel instant attraction when she sees you again, and also to think, “Wow, he’s really changed in a good way!”

Good examples of showing obvious improvements are losing weight if you needed to, getting bigger by working out if you needed to tone up, and also getting your own place if you were living with parents or with rooommates.

Final Step
Once you’ve improved yourself with all the things that I mentioned, and you haven’t contacted her for at eight months later, then you can send her a non-needy text.

When texting her, don’t mention anything about missing her, or how long it’s been since you’ve spoken. Act like you spoke yesterday. And definitely don’t ask her out. You could text her about something fun that you’re doing with friends, but don’t invite her. She’ll expect you to invite, but don’t.

Just text her something funny that she can personally relate to, or about something fun that you’re doing with friends. If she has interest, she might invite you to hang out, but don’t be discouraged if she doesn’t. There’s a good chance that she’s just waiting for you to ask her to do something fun just like when you first started dating.  Make sure to not be overly eager.  At the soonest, ask her to hang out with you after the second time that you text her.   If she doesn’t, because of all the major improvements that you’ve made recently, it won’t be a big deal.  And you’ll soon realize that she’s not quite as special as you once thought.