You’ve probably heard that you don’t necessarily have to have good looks to be successful at picking up women. Well it definitely helps if you’re naturally good looking, but it isn’t absolutely necessary. There are things you can do to make yourself physically attractive without being a traditionally good-looking guy. You do need to have a cool style of dressing, and a nice smile. Women really pay attention to that stuff. Being fit also helps out tremendously. If you’re a fit guy with a cool style, you can generally get attraction from a girl before you ever say a single word to her.
Your personal style of dressing is very important to make a good first impression. You can be the smoothest talking guy around, but if you approach a hot girl, and you look like a dork, she’ll never give you a chance. She’ll think of you as a loser, and just ignore you. Like most guys you probably have no idea what to wear to stand out in a good way. If you don’t know what to wear you should start off by wearing clothes that actually fit. If you wear clothes that are too big, you’ll look sloppy. If you wear stuff that’s overly tight, you’ll run the risk of looking gay. Don’t do that.
Don’t be afraid to wear stuff that’s slightly out of your comfort zone. Look at some celebrity gossip websites for some example photos. Find photos of a celebrity who has a really cool style that you think you’d feel comfortable emulating, and also make sure that he’s the type of guy that probably gets laid often. Also it can’t hurt to copy a cool hairstyle that fits your comfort level, and fits the type of face you have.
If you’re a guy that wears glasses, replace them with contacts or invest in Lasik surgery. The only exception to that rule is if you have an exceptionally good-looking face, and that’s the only way you can get away with wearing them. Just make sure that they’re glasses with cool looking frames.
When you first approach a girl, you want to smile, so it’s important to have a nice smile. If your teeth need cosmetic improvement, then it is well worth the cost to have the work done. If your teeth need whitening also make sure to get that done.
As far as fitness goes, you don’t have to be a huge muscular guy. All you need is to get rid of any gut that you might have, and build some definition by doing some weight training.
Just realize that improving your style of dressing, improving the look of your smile and improving the look of your body will not only get girls to give you better first reactions, but will also give you much more confidence in yourself. And having more confidence in yourself will not only translate into more success with women, but could also mean more success in other aspects of your life.
